Too Many Holes In The Sack

Posted on by Mawusi Wewobe

At this point only God can save this friendship

I can either choose to plot my revenge or mend everything I have done

I do not have the strength.

These emotions are too strong

They can either lead me to my knees or make me do the worse

It feels like a sack with a lot of holes filled with water and I cannot patch them up quickly because the holes are big and the water is draining fast

I was too quick to judge

Now I have to face the wrath of a friend who thinks I broke our friendship

I thought I was looking out for him

I love my friend

Our friendship means a lot to me

Some people will choose a relationship over a friendship

Now I have learnt my lesson

I need to be more careful how I say things to people

Especially if it involves their romantic relationships

Your friend might be dating the worse of people

But the moment you tell him/her, he/she can assume you are jealous or just making stuff up

This is one the most delicate issues

Sometimes you have to shut up and save your friendship

Or

Speak up and lose the friendship

My friendships are more important than my romantic relationships

I do not even have the strength to continue this post…

Has anyone lost a friendship because you judged him/her harshly or spoke up about his/her partner?

Please let me know

 

Thanks

4 thoughts on “Too Many Holes In The Sack”

  1. Yes and we’re no longer friends. This has happened twice and it was because I spoke up about their partners. I’m ok with it. What it boiled down to was we talked and no middle ground could be reached. They could not manage to be friends with me and have their significant other. So they chose their significant other. It’s something you have to accept. My thing is, if we’re meant to be friends again it will happen. If not, I’ll just keep it moving.

  3. lost a friend of ten years because got into one of those internet banter that left emotions flying and suggested that couldn’t be friends with me anymore if p had friends like that.
    it’s like this friend wanted to choose for me who I should befriend apart from them and when they gave the ultimatum I took it because got friends of all sorts and found it offensive that someone else will tell me who to befriend.
    painful but I’ve made new friends.
    at the end of the day life is about you not your friends.
    read my article on friendship on my blog.

    Thank you!

    1. This is about friends who choose their relationships over their friendships and the effects of telling a friend that his/her partner is not what that partner is portraying to be. In your case, your friend was being possessive and limiting you to meet new people. Sorry about that.

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