TOO LATE … LOVE

One of the worst feelings is when you meet someone who is so amazing and in love with you but you do not feel the same way. This person makes you feel so special  and is almost or exactly what you are looking for but you just cannot reciprocate that love for him/her. Sometimes you try to fall in love with this person but it is impossible and you know he/she will always remain a friend to you.

No matter how happy you are in your relationship with another amazing person, you still feel terrible because you cannot fall in love with this person. You cannot marry or date two people at the same time. You wish nothing but the best for him/her. You can only hope this person meet someone who is worthy to love him/her back.

What makes this even more terrible is when you love someone who is the complete opposite; jerk or scumbag. You know the person you love does not deserve you but you cannot breakup or you are finding it difficult to move on. You wonder why you met this scumbag or jerk before the amazing one.

You think life is unfair because sometimes you meet the most amazing people when you are married or dating a scumbag or jerk. But I am glad that we get to date or marry scumbags and jerks so that we can learn from our mistakes and seek someone who deserves us and is amazing. We need to meet both good and bad people so we know the difference, helps us go for the best or the better person.

You really do not want to hurt this amazing person but you know he/she must go. It is better you let him/her know how you truly feel so this person moves on rather than give high hopes when nothing more than a friendship is all you can offer.

If you love someone you know you cannot date or marry, the best thing to do is move on now. Hopefully things work out for you but until then you should move on.

Adios!