I cannot deal with people who cannot think for themselves. Sometimes we ask for help with a decision but to make others think for you all the time is very disturbing and pathetic.
We cannot be friends if someone told you to do so. I want us to be friends because you think we can be friends not because someone thinks it for you. Think for yourself. Take control of your life and make decisions that affect you.
If someone recommends that you befriend me, I can tolerate that and we can start a friendship to see if it works out. Recommendation is different from the person telling you to befriend me. To recommend means to suggest something. Being told to do something means you have been instructed to do it. You choose to listen to the recommendation and if you like it, you keep it but if you are instructed it means whether you like it or not you have to do it.
I want discerning people in my life. People who think for themselves and take control of their lives. I want to have conversations with people who say, “I think.” not, “He or she says.”
If people think for you all the time, you will never learn to make you own decisions, mistakes and mature. The worst part is that you will always be misled by others. You are always doing what they are saying so it would be difficult to know it they are telling lies or not since you have no experience in decision making to discern between the truth and lies.
When you start thinking for yourself, get back to me.
Adios!