There are certain people in our lives we want to spend the rest of our lives with They can be family or friends But is there anyone you can see yourself with someday? Someone you can spend the rest of your life with in the future? Someone you know will never leave no matter…
I AM NOT MISSING OUT AFTER ALL
I am having a weekend getaway with my girlfriends this weekend Last night they dragged me along for a night out I hardly go out for the nightlife but I decided to give it a try and I liked it! Since I do not club they took me to a popular bar Initially I was…
I WOULD PROBABLY DO WORSE
Sometimes I imagine living the lives of others and wondering if I would have made the same decisions they made Abortion *I do not support abortion unless the mother’s life is in danger* What if I had religious parents, too poor to cater for child or got raped, would I abort my unplanned pregnancy? Prostitution…
MY VERSION OF THE TRUTH
We are all judgmental Some people know how to shut up There are others that cannot control themselves and just say them all When we see things or people we analyse everything about it or them Especially when the things are of interest to us There are too many people seeking attention and…
NO LABELING
I have a lot of friends who are frustrated with me because I will not label them Whether they are best friends, close friends, girlfriends or boyfriends The moment I label my relationships They carry unnecessary responsibilities If I call someone my best friend then it means I have to start treating them as such…
LEIBSTER AWARD
I have recently been nominated by a fellow blogger, Sex & The Cincy for the Liebster new blogger award! Thanks for the nomination, I am really honoured. I want to thank all my followers and everyone who reads or has read of my posts. Answers to my Ten Questions from Sex & The Cincy 1. What is your…
YOU ARE NOT WELCOMED HERE ANYMORE!
ARGH! It so annoying when someone returns to your life and wants the best place Instead of staying and working hard to be part of your life, they leave Then return and expects to be treated like royalty The most irritating of them all are the ones you fell in love with or liked When…
CAN MEN AND WOMEN BE JUST FRIENDS?
Whenever the this question is asked a lot of women and a few men say yes Can men and women be just friends? I believe men and women can be just friends but it is very rare At some point one or both of the them will fall in love with each other I have…
WHEN WILL THEY GET IT RIGHT ABOUT AFRICA?
This is the most painful post I have written so far. The ignorance about Africa is just unbearable. It is very painful, humiliating, annoying and shocking when I hear about how the rest of the world think about Africa. Most people in western countries think the worse off Africa. Automatically we are all poor, hungry,…
TRUSTING WITH TRUST
Why should I fight for someone who does not want to be won? Wait for someone who will not stay still Stay faithful to someone who hops to the next available arms Stay loyal to a betrayer Die for a coward Live for a hypocrite Pledge alliance to a traitor I am human I have…
HOW DOES BAD LOOK LIKE?
The most common comment I hear people tell me is, “You look bad.” When I ask them what they mean, they tell me I look like someone who loves clubbing, casual sex, a player, a lot of tattoos, a lot of body piercings and very immoral. I look in the mirror and I see a…
HALF GLASS OF ICE CREAM
I am sitting here with a half glass of chocolate ice cream and I do not know whether to cry, laugh, scream, get angry or smile I bought a big bowl of Fan Choco ice cream I got home and realised that the ice cream bowl had cracked and I lost almost half of the…