There are certain things that people do that can make me end any relations I have with them regardless of how long we have known each other or close we are. 1. HONESTY I do no probe into people’s lives. I believe trust is earned so I expect people to tell things at their own…
EVEN A CHILD KNOWS BETTER
He ran across the room to where I was sitting and opened both palms as my tears fell in them With a little smile he looked in my face and said, “Mummy, don’t cry.” He came home drunk again With the smell of cheap perfume His zipper was opened It was 1 am on a…
Welcome/Introduction
THE LITTLE MEAN GIRL IN ME
In 1999, when my cousin and I were about 9 and 10 years old we had an interesting conversation We would shoot our husbands if we caught them cheating on us There are four things that amaze me about that conversation; We knew what marriage was We knew what cheating was We knew what…
“Why didn’t you just say all that in the first place?”
My girlfriends and I were having a kitchen table talk about people who are in love with their friends and are not saying anything about it when this episode of The Penguins of Madagascar: “Monkey Love” started showing on tv. *Kitchen table talk is casual conversations between friends or family around a table with food…
HE CAME AND CONQUERED
I was content with my life; single, independent and happy I had long romantic nights with myself; listening to music, dancing and drinking red wine I bought myself flowers and boxes of chocolates I told myself everyday that I was beautiful and that I loved who I was I had built imaginary walls…
YOU DESERVE EVERY DIGNITY AVAILABLE
When will some people stand up for themselves? Even just for just once! For once they will acknowledge themselves as human and demand for some dignity It is very heartbreaking seeing people endure abuse and they refuse to let the situation change It is just sad! I have been doing social work for…
DIARIES, JOURNALS, BlOGS AND MEMORIES!
Its been 10 years since I started using diaries and journals Just 1 year since I started blogging The main reason I wanted to keep a diary was to remember important dates and some memories that I might forget I keep a journal to write my goals, inspirations and whatever it is I am going…
I HAD NO CHOICE IN MY MAKING
Why can’t we all just get along? Let us pretend to love each other and live in peace Life is simple but humans make it too complicated We are all different Yet we want everyone to behave the same There are too many man-made regulations about life There are too many books on life There…
HE COOKS!
When you meet a man who can cook, you just met a piece of heaven! They are rare and a gem to keep for life I love eating so meeting a man who loves cooking is meeting my soul mate in food Loves Eating + Loves cooking= Food Soul Mate I have a…
WOMEN ARE NOT THEIR OWN WORST ENEMIES
We have all heard about the saying, ‘Women are their own worst enemies’ I do not believe so Women are more emotional beings to its more obvious when we do not like other people especially other women Men do hate other men But men show less emotion so it is difficult to tell when they…
LIVING AS A WOMAN
After spending four days with my girlfriends, I learnt so much about women This getaway was exactly what I needed at this moment in my life as young woman growing up and discovering herself When you become a young adult a lot of things change Pressure is one of the most difficult things to…