Thank you Sex & The Cincy for nominating for another Liebster Award. To accept the nomination I must: Thank the Liebster Blog presenter who nominated you, with link back to their blog. Answer the 11 questions you were asked and create 11 of your own questions to ask your nominees. Nominate 11 blogs of your…
GENUINELY SORRY
Sometimes it is so endearing so see people genuinely apologise repeatedly for something they did wrong. They go all out to please you and hope you forgive them and accept them back into your life. You look at them and you know deep within you that these people have truly repented and never meant to…
Sisterhood of World Bloggers Award!
Recently Sex & The Cincy nominated me for the Sisterhood of World Bloggers award. Thank you so much for the nomination! Here are my answers to the questions Sex & The Cincy asked. Your favourite colour? Red Your favourite animal? Dogs Favourite non alcohol drink? Sangria Facebook or Twitter? Facebook Your favourite pattern? Kente Patterns…
BEHIND MY SMILE…
A lot people who know me think I deal with breakups or loss very well. I am not as strong as I portray myself to be. When I go through any devastating situation, I get depressed, cry, sleep and eat. These are just my temporary relief from the pain until I finally move on or…
MY CHOICES
Do people even know how I truly feel about the things they do to me, around me or for me? Has anyone ever stopped to sit and think about what he/she is doing might be affecting my life? Has anyone ever approached me and asked me about how I felt about their actions in the…
NOTHING JUSTIFIES VIOLENCE!
It is very disturbing and sad that some people think that men can beat women if they disrespect or do something terrible to them. There are women who also abuse men. Violence is never justified in any case, there is always peaceful solutions to problems. Beating up people because they did you wrong will not…
FUNERAL GUEST LIST
I have been to a few funerals but there is one thing I saw at every funeral I was at, pretentious people. It is sickening to see people who hated the deceased mourning as if their own relative or best friend was dead. I do not want such people at my funeral. So I have…
BETRAYAL CUTS DEEP
I have been writing about betrayals a lot these days because it is one of the most painful things anyone can ever go through. It changes your views on human beings and affect your life negatively. If you do not have the right people to talk to and help you through it, you will never…
SOMETIMES FRIENDSHIPS END…
Some people do not know the definition of friendship. Friendship is a relationship of mutual affection between two or more people not a parasitic relationship. It not a title you get but a title you earn. Work for it. Sometimes it is not pleasant, there are painful and sweet moments. If you cannot love another…
BETTER THAN MOST
I have come to realise that most of the people that are ignored or judged because they do not reach a certain standard in society or are odd make good companions. When you get close to them and get to know them, you realise that they are good people. Some of my closest friends are…
FOR ONCE… LISTEN.
Listen! I hardly pour my heart out. I would rather keep my feelings to myself. But you need to listen to me. I love you. You think I do not love you because you complain all the time about how I hardly care about you. You want me to express my feelings all the time…
FEELING LOVED
It is endearing to have someone fuss over me. He puts my needs above his. He calls frequently to check up on me and gets worried when he has not heard from me for than more a day. He looks into my eyes and pours his heart to me and entrusts his very soul into…