I was at the beach when I saw some young men in their underwear having so much fun playing games. They did not care about what the rest of the world thought of them. It is very refreshing to see men or boys play and have fun without people around labeling them as gay or…
NOTHING WRONG WITH BEING DIFFERENT
I have stopped trying to make the people I meet understand me. Things get worse when I try to explain myself and most often our friendship does not work afterwards. With time I have come to accept that I am different from most people. This has taught me to be able to endure loneliness and…
TEMPORARY RELATIONSHIPS
One of the most painful things to know is that the friend you were so proud to show or tell everyone was embarrassed to tell his/her friends or anyone about you. You only meet in secret and gets angry when you tell anyone about him/her. You cannot even put pictures of him/her on your social…
NIGHTLIFE VS ME
When I was a teenager, I thought my mum was being harsh on me when she would not let me go out at night to have fun. I had a curfew and I hated it. She is very protective of me. Now I live on my own in another city without my mother’s overprotectiveness. I…
TIRED FROM LIVING FOR OTHERS.
They say you should never give up on people no matter what. But sometimes you have to let them make their own choices even if it is harming or will harm them. Experience is the best teacher and testimony. They will learn when they experience whatever bad things you wanted to prevent from happening to…
LITTLE BOY… BIG ATTITUDE
A few days ago I had a good experience with a little boy. He is probably an adolescent. He came to me and asked me for money in sign language then I realised he was deaf-mute and I gave him the coins in my pocket since I did not take my purse. A few seconds…
THAT SECOND CHANCE THAT WORKED…
I harldy forgive people and give them a second chance back into my life. If you betray me, I will just end my relationship with you. There are some few people that I have given second chances because I thought they had changed but they even hurt me worse than they did before. So I…
LOVE AND LOVING IT!
I have two friends who are so in love and are excited to get married soon. Seeing them happy together reminds me that love is beautiful. It is very rare these days to see couples so in love and willing to sacrifice a lot for each other. Most couples I see these days are more…
ATTITUDE CHANGE
Sometimes when I hear some people complain or tell me that they need new clothes, I just laugh and tell them that they actually need a new attitude. Their personalities have either faded, died or unpleasant. New clothes does not cover up a bad attitude. You can wear the most expensive clothes and still stink…
JEALOUSY AND COMPETITIONS
I will walk out of your life the moment you start comparing me to someone or try to make me jealous. When someone tries to make me jealous or compete for a position in his/her life, I end my relationship with him/her. If I tell you that I love you, it means I love you….
MIDNIGHT SNACKING
One of the most difficult decisions I have ever made in my life is to eat healthy and at the right time. I wish I can do that but my weakness for junk food is too strong. I have developed a bad habit that is eating at midnight. It has become one of my favourite…
EXTENDED GOODBYES
Recently a very close person died and I realised I did not say goodbye to her. She was sick in the hospital but we all thought she would live. From henceforth I will spend a lot of time with people I love. If I am traveling or running errands, I will hug them and remind…