I cannot comprehend friends who assume I hate them because I hardly talk to them again. There are several reasons why I hardly communicate with some friends; lost their contacts, sick, going through difficulties or away on vacation. If I hate you, you will not be my friend. Communication is important, but it does not…
KITCHEN TABLE TALK; LESS FAMILY… LESS DRAMA
I have spoken to several people who prefer to be surrounded by less family members especially extended family members because they cause more trouble. Biologically related family members are the people we all did not choose before we were born to relate with. They are our relatives because we share the same ancestor. The older…
REVERSE ASSUMPTIONS
Some people can make you look desperate or evil most of the time. They never do the right thing and when you complain, you become the person who nags too much, the perfect one or you are just plain annoying. I always look like the bad guy in most situations because I complain or scold…
NO FAILURE AND UNNECESSARY COMPETITIONS
I hate failure and unnecessary competition. I absolutely hate it when things end and I have to start all over again, especially close relationships. After all the sacrifices I made and the inconveniences I endured, that relationship ends. There are some things I wish lasted forever, especially close relationships with some people. I hate losing…
STOP IT CUPID!
I was figuring out my messy and complicated life when this man just walked in and decided to tear down the walls I have built. Initially I resisted but after a few days I realised he was just as stubborn as me and would not leave. My life is still a mess and complicated but…
WITHERED LOVE
I grew my love for you. I took my time and nurtured my love for you. In the innermost part of me. It was a beautiful garden filled with care and warmth. Then gradually we fell apart. This garden started withering. My love for you started dying. Memories scattered. We became bitter souls. Deeply wounded….
KITCHEN TABLE TALK: TOO BUSY FOR COMMUNICATION
It is so frustrating chasing someone you love and who loves you but will not stop. The reason is because he/she is busy. He/She is so busy, you hardly receive messages or calls from this person in several days especially if you do not live together. Initially it is easy to deal with their lack…
I AM A COWARD!
I am a coward! I hate to admit it to myself, but it is the truth. Lacking the courage to do something that is right or running away from something you can deal with because you are scared is being a coward. I have been running away from so many things for a long time….
KITCHEN TABLE TALK: BOUNDARIES
I have spoken with several friends and all of them said that boundaries are vital in every relationships. They set boundaries in all their relations. Boundaries are important. They are there for good reasons. If we do not put boundaries in our relationships then there will be no differentiating between the relationships in our lives….
HELLO LIFE!
For more than a decade, I had this fear that I was definitely going to die young and in the same manner like someone I knew who was very close to me. I was scared to die young and leave behind everyone I love. I tortured myself with this fear and it dictated how I…
TOO LATE … LOVE
One of the worst feelings is when you meet someone who is so amazing and in love with you but you do not feel the same way. This person makes you feel so special and is almost or exactly what you are looking for but you just cannot reciprocate that love for him/her. Sometimes you…
FRUSTRATING ASSUMPTIONS
I absolutely hate it when some people blame their job, family, race or their past when you want to end your friendship or relationship with them instead of their personalities or something they have done wrong. When man is interested in dating you and you turn him down then he says, “Is it because I’m…