We are all judgmental
Some people know how to shut up
There are others that cannot control themselves and just say them all
When we see things or people we analyse everything about it or them
Especially when the things are of interest to us
There are too many people seeking attention and approvals
If these approach me for my opinions, I tell them everything
Most often they get upset by the things I say because that was not what they expected to hear
I do not sugar coat my words
Whatever I tell you is exactly how I feel
That is why it is very difficult for me to apologise
I do not see why I have to should apologise for being honest
The most annoying part is when they keep coming back for more opinions and most often than not they leave disappointed
They think I will change my mind and say something nice
If I am proven wrong, then I would change my mind
But if I convinced of whatever it is I feel then I will stick to my opinions
Some people love being lied to
They live in denial
The truth might be too great for them to bear
They know the truth but do not want to accept it
They want to live in fantasies
WAKE UP!
This is reality!
Being lied to might feel good for a moment only if that is what you are looking for
But deep down you know something is not right
It better to accept the truth and deal with the pain than later
It might be too late then
I hate it when my friends over hype someone
When you finally meet him/her and he/she does not look like what they said
It is annoying
If you are dating an average looking man do not come and lie to me that he is extremely handsome or so fine and I begin to imagine Idris Elba or Boris Kodjoe
Some people have active imaginations
The images we create in our head are in 3D
The best thing to do is to shut up
Let your friends meet your partner and judge for themselves
If my version of the truth hurts you so bad, why do you keep coming back for more?
You know I am blunt and will tell you as it is
I might do you a favour and give you additional details
I love judging
But not aloud!
Whatever it is that I see or hear I quickly begin to analyse it
Everything is in my head until you ask me for my thoughts
We all have own versions of the truth
My truth might not be yours
You might also see things differently
Whatever truth I tell you
Take it in good faith
Bisous!
I am in the same boat with you. Don’t ask me if you don’t want the truth!
Definitely!