MEAN

Some types of mean is an ART!

You have to be effortless in your delivery, blunt and honest.

 

Meanness is relative.

It depends on the context in which it is done.

 

A person can be mean by saying the truth but using wittiness and sarcasm in a rude way regardless of the consequences.

Sometimes being mean is disrespectful and humiliating.

Mean people do not care about your emotions when they are telling you exactly how they feel or what they think about you or something.

Sometimes they are inconsiderate and selfish.

 

There are some people that are absolutely mean.

They put others down to make themselves feel better.

These are bullies.

Bullying is wrong.

Do not attack others for self-gratification.

They are just sadists.

 

There are people who have good intentions and tell you the truth in a blunt, sarcastic or rude way.

They are not trying to hurt you, they tell you the truth and hope you take it in good faith.

Sometimes we wish they would phrase their words in a pleasing way, i.e. “You are gaining some weight.” instead of,  “Keeping eating at this rate and you will become an elephant.”

 

ART is the expression or application of human creative skill and imagination.

Some types of comedy uses meanness to express their messages, i.e. satire and parody.

The art of being mean is when you can be witty or sarcastic with your honesty but expressing them in a rude way.

Expressing yourself in an honest yet funny way.

Being witty is natural, you cannot learn to be funny.

Example, “For a second, I thought I just saw an elephant when you waved your hand, I thought I saw a trunk.”

The above sentence means, you are fat or obese.

 

Most comedians are mean people.

They express themselves in an honest, blunt, sarcastic, witty and rude ways.

We consider this as talent and art.

 

My friends call me mean, some say I am the most meanest person they have ever met.

I do not plan to be mean.

It is very difficult NOT to mix honesty and sarcasm together when I talk to people especially if they ask me silly questions.

If you cannot sing and yet you keep disturbing me with your singing, I will be sarcastic and rude in the hope that you finally get the message clearly that you cannot sing so stop disturbing me.

 

Most often I am honest about my opinions and sometimes I am careless about how I say them.

A lot pf people get hurt because of that.

But they need to hear it regardless of how I say it.

Forgot the rude part and take the honesty part in good faith.

 

Most mean people have deep rooted issues.

Being MEAN becomes a defensive mechanism to avoid others from hurting them.

HURT PEOPLE HURT PEOPLE.

Seek help for them.

 

Do not be mean to mean people, be nice to them.

They need affection.

Sometimes they change after they realise that not everyone actually wants to hurt them.

 

Learn to control your meanness.

 

Bisous!