It is so frustrating chasing someone you love and who loves you but will not stop. The reason is because he/she is busy. He/She is so busy, you hardly receive messages or calls from this person in several days especially if you do not live together.
Initially it is easy to deal with their lack of communication but after a few months it gets really tiring and frustrating waiting to hear from this person. You have to initiate most of the communication. Sometimes this person forgets or does not reply your messages or return your calls.
How busy can somebody be that he/she will not have the time within a week to text or make a 30seconds call to his/her partner? Unless this person is out of this world, stuck on an island or at a place without communication tools then it is understandable but if you live within a place where communication tools are available including owning some then it is very strange and deliberate.
The worse part is when you know this person truly loves you and wants you as much as you wants him/her but just does not have the time to communicate with you.
When you complain, you are told the same old excuse, he/she is busy with work or whatever is going on with this person.
It was easy for me to tell someone going through this to have a little more patience for this person but after experiencing it myself, I know ending the relationship is the best option.
Life is too short to wait for someone who will not return or will come very late when almost all your life has passed you by because you were waiting for him/her.
Some friendship end because of this problem, it is not just about romantic relationships. Friends who are too busy to reply your messages, return your calls or even see you because they are too busy. How do you expect a friendship to work when you will not contribute your time to it? Find friends who can communicate with you when they have the time.
If you are going to be very busy so much that you cannot see nor communicate with others, do not enter a relationship. When you are ready for constant communication then you are ready for a relationship.
Find the time, if not then make time for people you love and care about before it is too late.
Adios!