HOW DOES BAD LOOK LIKE?

The most common comment I hear people tell me is,

“You look bad.”

When I ask them what they mean, they tell me I look like someone who loves clubbing, casual sex, a player, a lot of tattoos, a lot of body piercings and very immoral.

I look in the mirror and I see a lazy and crazy girl!

Someone who loves food, writing, sleeping and music

A forensic science freak!

Ironically I am not what they think I am or thought I was

I do not club and I have never been to a night club before

I am yet to have sex

I do not have tattoos and no body piercings (just my ears for my earrings)

I am not a player nor immoral

How does bad even look like?

I do not regret being me and I will not change anything about me

I love being me

Being open minded does not mean I am bad

Some people think I am a lesbian or bisexual

Mainly because I defend the rights of homosexuals

I believe every human is entitled to their sexuality

I am a Christian and the Bible says that homosexuality is a sin

The same Bible also said, stealing, lying, fornicating, adultery etc are sins

So I do not see why most Christians single out homosexuality and condemn it like it is the greatest sin

We all sin but in different ways

Crowd and noise are the two things I hate the most

I love staying indoors

People wonder why I do not club

This is because there are noise and crowd

The place gets very sweaty too

It is very expensive

The prices of drinks in night clubs are too expensive

I normally go food hunting with my friends

We go to different restaurants to try out different cuisines and wines

Restaurants that play good music like jazz and soul

I would rather eat then drink and dance to loud music

The best thing to do is SLEEP!

I do not give up my sleep for anything

Sleep is just the sweetest thing I have ever experienced

Not everyone with a lot of tattoos and body piercings are bad

The same goes for people who look decent, they might actually be the bad ones

Appearance is mostly deceptive

Society is judgemental

They have already determine who is good or bad

We are pressured to fit into one

I am not 100% good neither am I 0% bad

No one is either

We are made of the two

No one is perfect

Unfortunately some people will never get to know me and find out that I am not the ‘bad girl’ that they think I am

But I am not bothered

As long as I am not committing a crime or offending anyone with my lifestyle, I am good!

Cheers!