I cannot comprehend friends who assume I hate them because I hardly talk to them again. There are several reasons why I hardly communicate with some friends; lost their contacts, sick, going through difficulties or away on vacation. If I hate you, you will not be my friend.
Communication is important, but it does not mean that just because we talk often, we are friends. Some enemies communicate often. Sometimes I stop talking to people for a month, it does not mean I hate you. I just want to be left alone for a while to sort my life out or take a break from everything and revitalise.
Stop creating enemies out of friends who genuinely care about you. If you have not heard from me in a while, call and ask me why or what is going on with me. Do not assume I hate you, thus creating enmity between us. You call and accuse me of ignoring you or attack me verbally for ignoring you.
When a friend suddenly disappears, you find that person and ask what is going on, you do not assume your friend hates you and then end the friendship. Be concerned about the situation not offensive about a nonexistence war between you two. This avoids misunderstanding and the friendship continues.
Adios!
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I like those friends that you don’t have to talk to everyday but you are still friends if you go weeks on end without staying in touch. Great point, nice read
I like those friends too.
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