Dealing with people who know the right thing but deliberately refuse to do so is very frustrating, they put you in a very uncomfortable position to either rant, complain, or scold them. Afterwards they have the audacity to feel offended and make you the bad person when they created the entire mess. Maturity is lacking…
Category: RELATIONSHIPS
Everything concerning relations
SUPPORT SYSTEM
The older I get, the more important I realise that a support system is needed in life. I would not be here without a support system and very good one too. With friends and family that have given me their time, advice, money, encouragements, influenced situations in my favour, opportunities and more importantly hugs. Nothing…
FEELING LONELY IN THE CROWD
I should be happy because there a lot of people, drinks, food, laughter, smiling and fun but I feel lonely. I tried really hard to fit in and laugh with them but I still felt lonely. I stopped trying and went to sleep. They are not the kind of people I feel connected to. There…
THE “I CANNOT LEAVE” RELATIONSHIPS
I asked a married man why he cheats on his wife of 27 years and he said it is because he sees her like his sister. He did not say much but the expressions he used while talking to me were very sad and he looked very unhappy in his marriage. He said he does…
THINK FOR YOURSELF
I cannot deal with people who cannot think for themselves. Sometimes we ask for help with a decision but to make others think for you all the time is very disturbing and pathetic. We cannot be friends if someone told you to do so. I want us to be friends because you think we can…
NO FAILURE AND UNNECESSARY COMPETITIONS
I hate failure and unnecessary competition. I absolutely hate it when things end and I have to start all over again, especially close relationships. After all the sacrifices I made and the inconveniences I endured, that relationship ends. There are some things I wish lasted forever, especially close relationships with some people. I hate losing…
STOP IT CUPID!
I was figuring out my messy and complicated life when this man just walked in and decided to tear down the walls I have built. Initially I resisted but after a few days I realised he was just as stubborn as me and would not leave. My life is still a mess and complicated but…
WITHERED LOVE
I grew my love for you. I took my time and nurtured my love for you. In the innermost part of me. It was a beautiful garden filled with care and warmth. Then gradually we fell apart. This garden started withering. My love for you started dying. Memories scattered. We became bitter souls. Deeply wounded….
KITCHEN TABLE TALK: TOO BUSY FOR COMMUNICATION
It is so frustrating chasing someone you love and who loves you but will not stop. The reason is because he/she is busy. He/She is so busy, you hardly receive messages or calls from this person in several days especially if you do not live together. Initially it is easy to deal with their lack…
KITCHEN TABLE TALK: BOUNDARIES
I have spoken with several friends and all of them said that boundaries are vital in every relationships. They set boundaries in all their relations. Boundaries are important. They are there for good reasons. If we do not put boundaries in our relationships then there will be no differentiating between the relationships in our lives….
TOO LATE … LOVE
One of the worst feelings is when you meet someone who is so amazing and in love with you but you do not feel the same way. This person makes you feel so special and is almost or exactly what you are looking for but you just cannot reciprocate that love for him/her. Sometimes you…
FRUSTRATING ASSUMPTIONS
I absolutely hate it when some people blame their job, family, race or their past when you want to end your friendship or relationship with them instead of their personalities or something they have done wrong. When man is interested in dating you and you turn him down then he says, “Is it because I’m…