I cannot deal with people who cannot think for themselves. Sometimes we ask for help with a decision but to make others think for you all the time is very disturbing and pathetic. We cannot be friends if someone told you to do so. I want us to be friends because you think we can…
Category: LIFE
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KITCHEN TABLE TALK; LESS FAMILY… LESS DRAMA
I have spoken to several people who prefer to be surrounded by less family members especially extended family members because they cause more trouble. Biologically related family members are the people we all did not choose before we were born to relate with. They are our relatives because we share the same ancestor. The older…
I AM A COWARD!
I am a coward! I hate to admit it to myself, but it is the truth. Lacking the courage to do something that is right or running away from something you can deal with because you are scared is being a coward. I have been running away from so many things for a long time….
KITCHEN TABLE TALK: BOUNDARIES
I have spoken with several friends and all of them said that boundaries are vital in every relationships. They set boundaries in all their relations. Boundaries are important. They are there for good reasons. If we do not put boundaries in our relationships then there will be no differentiating between the relationships in our lives….
TOO LATE … LOVE
One of the worst feelings is when you meet someone who is so amazing and in love with you but you do not feel the same way. This person makes you feel so special and is almost or exactly what you are looking for but you just cannot reciprocate that love for him/her. Sometimes you…
THAT SECOND CHANCE THAT WORKED…
I harldy forgive people and give them a second chance back into my life. If you betray me, I will just end my relationship with you. There are some few people that I have given second chances because I thought they had changed but they even hurt me worse than they did before. So I…
JEALOUSY AND COMPETITIONS
I will walk out of your life the moment you start comparing me to someone or try to make me jealous. When someone tries to make me jealous or compete for a position in his/her life, I end my relationship with him/her. If I tell you that I love you, it means I love you….
GENUINELY SORRY
Sometimes it is so endearing so see people genuinely apologise repeatedly for something they did wrong. They go all out to please you and hope you forgive them and accept them back into your life. You look at them and you know deep within you that these people have truly repented and never meant to…
NOTHING JUSTIFIES VIOLENCE!
It is very disturbing and sad that some people think that men can beat women if they disrespect or do something terrible to them. There are women who also abuse men. Violence is never justified in any case, there is always peaceful solutions to problems. Beating up people because they did you wrong will not…
SOMETIMES FRIENDSHIPS END…
Some people do not know the definition of friendship. Friendship is a relationship of mutual affection between two or more people not a parasitic relationship. It not a title you get but a title you earn. Work for it. Sometimes it is not pleasant, there are painful and sweet moments. If you cannot love another…
FEELING LOVED
It is endearing to have someone fuss over me. He puts my needs above his. He calls frequently to check up on me and gets worried when he has not heard from me for than more a day. He looks into my eyes and pours his heart to me and entrusts his very soul into…
SILENCE KILLS
You killed me. They did not. When their lies were piling up, you kept quiet. They said and did all they could, while you watched. I looked at you. I stared into your eyes. You did not even blink. I was broken not because they tortured me but because you said and did nothing. I…