I harldy forgive people and give them a second chance back into my life. If you betray me, I will just end my relationship with you. There are some few people that I have given second chances because I thought they had changed but they even hurt me worse than they did before. So I…
Category: EXPERIENCE
My experiences from places
ATTITUDE CHANGE
Sometimes when I hear some people complain or tell me that they need new clothes, I just laugh and tell them that they actually need a new attitude. Their personalities have either faded, died or unpleasant. New clothes does not cover up a bad attitude. You can wear the most expensive clothes and still stink…
JEALOUSY AND COMPETITIONS
I will walk out of your life the moment you start comparing me to someone or try to make me jealous. When someone tries to make me jealous or compete for a position in his/her life, I end my relationship with him/her. If I tell you that I love you, it means I love you….
MIDNIGHT SNACKING
One of the most difficult decisions I have ever made in my life is to eat healthy and at the right time. I wish I can do that but my weakness for junk food is too strong. I have developed a bad habit that is eating at midnight. It has become one of my favourite…
EXTENDED GOODBYES
Recently a very close person died and I realised I did not say goodbye to her. She was sick in the hospital but we all thought she would live. From henceforth I will spend a lot of time with people I love. If I am traveling or running errands, I will hug them and remind…
GENUINELY SORRY
Sometimes it is so endearing so see people genuinely apologise repeatedly for something they did wrong. They go all out to please you and hope you forgive them and accept them back into your life. You look at them and you know deep within you that these people have truly repented and never meant to…
BEHIND MY SMILE…
A lot people who know me think I deal with breakups or loss very well. I am not as strong as I portray myself to be. When I go through any devastating situation, I get depressed, cry, sleep and eat. These are just my temporary relief from the pain until I finally move on or…
MY CHOICES
Do people even know how I truly feel about the things they do to me, around me or for me? Has anyone ever stopped to sit and think about what he/she is doing might be affecting my life? Has anyone ever approached me and asked me about how I felt about their actions in the…
NOTHING JUSTIFIES VIOLENCE!
It is very disturbing and sad that some people think that men can beat women if they disrespect or do something terrible to them. There are women who also abuse men. Violence is never justified in any case, there is always peaceful solutions to problems. Beating up people because they did you wrong will not…
FUNERAL GUEST LIST
I have been to a few funerals but there is one thing I saw at every funeral I was at, pretentious people. It is sickening to see people who hated the deceased mourning as if their own relative or best friend was dead. I do not want such people at my funeral. So I have…
BETRAYAL CUTS DEEP
I have been writing about betrayals a lot these days because it is one of the most painful things anyone can ever go through. It changes your views on human beings and affect your life negatively. If you do not have the right people to talk to and help you through it, you will never…
SOMETIMES FRIENDSHIPS END…
Some people do not know the definition of friendship. Friendship is a relationship of mutual affection between two or more people not a parasitic relationship. It not a title you get but a title you earn. Work for it. Sometimes it is not pleasant, there are painful and sweet moments. If you cannot love another…