I should be happy because there a lot of people, drinks, food, laughter, smiling and fun but I feel lonely. I tried really hard to fit in and laugh with them but I still felt lonely. I stopped trying and went to sleep. They are not the kind of people I feel connected to. There…
Category: EXPERIENCE
My experiences from places
KITCHEN TABLE TALK: MOVING OUT OF HOME
Most of my friends and I are in our mid-twenties and one of the important things we discuss is moving out of home. We think we are adults and need our own space and privacy. We have reached the stage in life where living with your parents is not acceptable in society. You are expected…
CONVENIENT LIFE
I love convenience! I want to wake up every morning in my own warm bed, walk into my bathroom to take a bath and to my kitchen to make breakfast. I want to be able to go anywhere with the easiest form of transportation. Everything should be convenient. I cannot live poor and I will…
FRIENDSHIP ON TEMPORARY LEAVE.
I cannot comprehend friends who assume I hate them because I hardly talk to them again. There are several reasons why I hardly communicate with some friends; lost their contacts, sick, going through difficulties or away on vacation. If I hate you, you will not be my friend. Communication is important, but it does not…
KITCHEN TABLE TALK; LESS FAMILY… LESS DRAMA
I have spoken to several people who prefer to be surrounded by less family members especially extended family members because they cause more trouble. Biologically related family members are the people we all did not choose before we were born to relate with. They are our relatives because we share the same ancestor. The older…
REVERSE ASSUMPTIONS
Some people can make you look desperate or evil most of the time. They never do the right thing and when you complain, you become the person who nags too much, the perfect one or you are just plain annoying. I always look like the bad guy in most situations because I complain or scold…
STOP IT CUPID!
I was figuring out my messy and complicated life when this man just walked in and decided to tear down the walls I have built. Initially I resisted but after a few days I realised he was just as stubborn as me and would not leave. My life is still a mess and complicated but…
I AM A COWARD!
I am a coward! I hate to admit it to myself, but it is the truth. Lacking the courage to do something that is right or running away from something you can deal with because you are scared is being a coward. I have been running away from so many things for a long time….
KITCHEN TABLE TALK: BOUNDARIES
I have spoken with several friends and all of them said that boundaries are vital in every relationships. They set boundaries in all their relations. Boundaries are important. They are there for good reasons. If we do not put boundaries in our relationships then there will be no differentiating between the relationships in our lives….
TOO LATE … LOVE
One of the worst feelings is when you meet someone who is so amazing and in love with you but you do not feel the same way. This person makes you feel so special and is almost or exactly what you are looking for but you just cannot reciprocate that love for him/her. Sometimes you…
NIGHTLIFE VS ME
When I was a teenager, I thought my mum was being harsh on me when she would not let me go out at night to have fun. I had a curfew and I hated it. She is very protective of me. Now I live on my own in another city without my mother’s overprotectiveness. I…
TIRED FROM LIVING FOR OTHERS.
They say you should never give up on people no matter what. But sometimes you have to let them make their own choices even if it is harming or will harm them. Experience is the best teacher and testimony. They will learn when they experience whatever bad things you wanted to prevent from happening to…