Whenever the this question is asked a lot of women and a few men say yes
Can men and women be just friends?
I believe men and women can be just friends but it is very rare
At some point one or both of the them will fall in love with each other
I have a few male friends that I have known since childhood and we have never had any feelings other than platonic feelings for each other
Well that is what they tell me
I have a heard a lot of men say unless the woman is ugly they cannot just be friends with them
This is just nonsense
Falling in love with someone is not just about their appearance
Personality is the most important thing
But beauty creates some attraction
So for those who want some sexual fun, beauty is their criteria
If you want a partner for life, you want someone with a good personality
So I am asking you,
CAN MEN AND WOMEN BE JUST FRIENDS?
Why?
I agree. Possible, but very rare. Any of my male friends that have remained true friends, one or both of us had to go through the “I have feelings for you” stage. The lucky few that can get to the other side of that, can be friends.
You are right. It is good you still have them in your life.
its good, just that in this current generation, if you get that close to a lady without any form of relationship stirring up, you’re termed weak. or as Ghanaians will call it, “mouth-lazy”
I think it is everywhere. Do you have any female friends?
oh yea, a very close one and people talk but i don’t care because i love her better as a friend.
You have not had any crush on her whatsoever?
I think it is possible. It’s all about boundaries and knowing yourself really well.
Do you have any close male friend that nothing intimate has ever happened before?
Yep. I have a few. Neither one of us are attracted to each other.
I haven’t had any crush on her whatsoever although i can’t speak same about her. We’re just close….very close
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sure men and women can be just friends. Two of my best friends are ladies. Admittedly i had a teenage crush on one of them along the line but it passed without any action of which i’m glad.
Has any also had a crush on you?
I don’t think so. .. at one point you will fall for each other. But hey if you truly want to keep him as a friend you just have to ignore those feelings. .
This happens most of the time.