I have a lot of friends who are frustrated with me because I will not label them Whether they are best friends, close friends, girlfriends or boyfriends The moment I label my relationships They carry unnecessary responsibilities If I call someone my best friend then it means I have to start treating them as such…
Author: Mawusi Wewobe
LEIBSTER AWARD
I have recently been nominated by a fellow blogger, Sex & The Cincy for the Liebster new blogger award! Thanks for the nomination, I am really honoured. I want to thank all my followers and everyone who reads or has read of my posts. Answers to my Ten Questions from Sex & The Cincy 1. What is your…
YOU ARE NOT WELCOMED HERE ANYMORE!
ARGH! It so annoying when someone returns to your life and wants the best place Instead of staying and working hard to be part of your life, they leave Then return and expects to be treated like royalty The most irritating of them all are the ones you fell in love with or liked When…
CAN MEN AND WOMEN BE JUST FRIENDS?
Whenever the this question is asked a lot of women and a few men say yes Can men and women be just friends? I believe men and women can be just friends but it is very rare At some point one or both of the them will fall in love with each other I have…
WHEN WILL THEY GET IT RIGHT ABOUT AFRICA?
This is the most painful post I have written so far. The ignorance about Africa is just unbearable. It is very painful, humiliating, annoying and shocking when I hear about how the rest of the world think about Africa. Most people in western countries think the worse off Africa. Automatically we are all poor, hungry,…
TRUSTING WITH TRUST
Why should I fight for someone who does not want to be won? Wait for someone who will not stay still Stay faithful to someone who hops to the next available arms Stay loyal to a betrayer Die for a coward Live for a hypocrite Pledge alliance to a traitor I am human I have…
HOW DOES BAD LOOK LIKE?
The most common comment I hear people tell me is, “You look bad.” When I ask them what they mean, they tell me I look like someone who loves clubbing, casual sex, a player, a lot of tattoos, a lot of body piercings and very immoral. I look in the mirror and I see a…
HALF GLASS OF ICE CREAM
I am sitting here with a half glass of chocolate ice cream and I do not know whether to cry, laugh, scream, get angry or smile I bought a big bowl of Fan Choco ice cream I got home and realised that the ice cream bowl had cracked and I lost almost half of the…
SUNSHINE IN SUNSHINE
I lost my tortoise today She was beautiful We hardly interacted because she hid in her shell whenever I approached her She gave me many baby tortoises I named her Sunshine Because she brought light into my life She made me happy I was looking for a male tortoise for her A companion So…
COMFORT EATING
Thank God food can’t talk! I have a big bowl of Nestle Country Fresh ice cream, Pringles, Danish cookies, M&M’s and a big glass of Sprite right now with me *Please do not try this at home or anywhere else…it is not healthy!* With Nina Simone‘s version of Sinner Man on repeat. Junk food tastes…
Too Many Holes In The Sack
At this point only God can save this friendship I can either choose to plot my revenge or mend everything I have done I do not have the strength. These emotions are too strong They can either lead me to my knees or make me do the worse It feels like a sack with a…
Hey Perfect, Come Later!
I have to come to the realisation that my greatest fear is not being asexual, philobobic or commitment. My greatest fear is finding the man that would make me want to settle down. The man that would make marriage look very perfect. The companion that will satisfy me in every aspect of my life. …