One of the most painful things to know is that the friend you were so proud to show or tell everyone was embarrassed to tell his/her friends or anyone about you. You only meet in secret and gets angry when you tell anyone about him/her. You cannot even put pictures of him/her on your social media page or even use them as a screensaver.
Losing such a person should not hurt but it does, because you shared some good memories together, thought he/she was a friend and cared about you. All along you were just some temporary pleasure for him/her.
Such people have a lot to hide; they could be married, have a romantic partner, gossips about you and does not want anyone to know you are their friend, embarrassed you are not what they tell people they want in a friend or just not good enough for them.
Just cut your loss and move on. There are a lot of people who will accept you for you and will gladly tell everyone that you exist in their lives.
Most importantly, you learn your lesson and make sure you do not let such people into your life again. Watch out for the signs and when you see them in someone, let him/her go. You are not a temporary pleasure for anyone. Everyone in your life must accept you for you or leave your life.
Hopefully, they suffer the same experience. What goes around, comes around.
Feels like im going through such 🙁
Sorry! Will call you.
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