I will walk out of your life the moment you start comparing me to someone or try to make me jealous.
When someone tries to make me jealous or compete for a position in his/her life, I end my relationship with him/her.
If I tell you that I love you, it means I love you. I do not need you to use another person to get my attention. I do not expect you to tell me how you enjoy being with someone else other than me. It shows that you do not appreciate my presence in your life.
Everyone plays a different role in our lives so it is unfair to accuse a friend for not being there for you like your husband/wife. Husbands/Wives are closer to us so we expect them to be more involved in our lives compared to friends.
If I am your girlfriend or fiance or wife, you are my priority. I expect you to treat me the same. Do not go flirt with other women to see if I will get jealous. You are only going to make me angry and I will end our relationship. Immature people test their loved ones with unnecessary jealous antics.
I hate competitions especially for the love of another person. I always say, I do not compete with my siblings for my parents’ love so I will not fight another woman for my boyfriend or husband’s love. If you love me, you will be with me and not with another woman. You will think about ways of improving our relationship and not finding faults with it. If I realise that you will not choose between another woman and I, then I will leave your life. Be decisive. It is either her or me. Not both us or any of us when you feel like it.
I do not need you to spend more time with someone else for me to know what I have. You being in my life means, I know what I want and it is YOU. Do not go messing it up with any silly games to test my love.
When someone loves you, he/she will show you through their actions and words. They help you get better. Someone getting jealous because you are with another person does not always mean that they love you. They could be faking it.
Value what you have before you lose it.
Word!