LEAVE THE GOOD FOR THE MATURED!

Here are the meanings of the key words; good and bad

Good –  desired, approved of, having the required qualities; of a high standard, that which is morally right; righteousness and benefit

Bad – of poor quality or a low standard and not such as to be hoped for or desired; unpleasant or unwelcome

I hate to hear some people advise the rest of us to date bad boys or bad girls because they are more fun.

I do not like inferior things, they do not last. They make life unbearable.

Quality things last longer and makes my life very easy, so I want quality things.

Fun is relative; what I find entertaining is not what you will consider to be entertaining.

If I want to date or get married, I want a ‘GOOD BOY’!

I value myself so much that I cannot let another human being maltreat me.

There is no fun in being reduced to nothing.

I want my children to have a good father, someone they can look up to, to emulate in their lives, so it it my responsibility to get a ‘good boy’ to marry.

More importantly I need to be in a good state of mind to have children and give them a good upbringing.

If I marry a ‘bad boy’ who gives me too much to worry about, how am I supposed to take of my children and myself?

Some of the qualities I hear about bad boys are not even bad things; adventurous and wild sex.

Good boys can be adventurous and have wild sex too. They are interesting and fun to be with.

I cannot take you serious if you want a ‘bad boy’ or ‘bad girl’ to date or marry. You are immature and do not value yourself. I cannot be friends with someone who willingly wants to be maltreated. I cannot trust my children around you because they will not learn anything good from you. I will spend too much time consoling you because a bad boy you desperately wanted dumped you.

People who want ‘bad boys’ or ‘bad girls’ lament the most when they are dumped by their heart desires. You know what you were asking for when you decide to be them so when you get dumped, just lock yourself in your room and cry yourself to sleep.

Nobody got time to console an idiot.

When reality hits them, they finally want a ‘good boy’ or ‘good girl’ to date or marry. Most often when they do not get the ‘good boys’ or ‘good girls’, they go after those who are already in committed relationships.

There are some people are who are masochists and enjoy being maltreated. We cannot change them.

The happiest people are those in relationships with ‘good girls’ and ‘good boys’. They have less worries and are planning their future together.

There is so much nonsense about how boring ‘good boys’ and ‘good girls’ are. They are too nice, predictable, not dominant, too caring, etc.

What is wrong with being treated right?

What is wrong with a man who thinks about your future together?

What is wrong with being valued and loved like the human being that you are?

If you want a JERK or bad boy, go for it but when things go wrong, do not come back and disturb the human race that men are wicked.

If you get maltreated by ‘bad girl’ do not go around lamenting that women are the devil.

Life is not only about living in the moments, it is also about planning for the future.

Seek for things that will last and empower you to grow and live a fruitful life.

Dating ‘bad boys’ and ‘bad girls’ will give you the temporal pleasures you seek now, but those pleasures will not pay the bills, give you a good relationship or marriage, take care of your children, make you live longer and give you the true happiness in life.

Look around you, hardly will you find ‘bad boys’ or ‘bad girls’ achieving the best in life. They waste too much of their lives seeking vanity.

The good girls and good boys spend so much of the lives building a good future.

So ‘good boys’ and ‘good girls’ stay winning.

The best feeling in the world is loving someone who loves you back.

Chasing ‘bad girls’ or ‘bad boys’ never provides true love or true happiness.

I would rather be with a man who treats me right and is boring. I can teach a boring ‘good boy’ to be interesting. There is so much we can do together as a couple to spice up our relationship.

Enough of the ‘good boys’ or ‘bad girls’ are boring. If you do want them, leave them for matured women and men to have them.

 Bisous!